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Friends With Benefits - You Must Know This Before You Agree to Him
By Tina L. Jones
Have you had a man offer you the friends with benefits package and are wondering if you should just go for it? Sure it can be very nice to have an arrangement with a man where you can enjoy having sex without all of the headaches of a relationship. But how do you know for sure if this is something which is not going to come back and bite you?
Well, there is something which you have to understand before moving on with this decision.
First, emotional bonding is a natural result of having sex for a woman. There is actually a hormone in your body called the cuddle hormone or 'oxytocin' which causes you to emotionally bond with a person whom you have sex with. This is nature and when it comes to nature, you just don't get to decide how things work.
So you do have to ask yourself if you can handle having the emotional bond grow stronger while this man treats you as nothing more than a booty call. This may be ok in theory, but wait until your hormones start messing with the way that you think. You may find that you are in over your head before you know what is going on.
The other thing which you have to consider is that someone may come along who you really want to be with. Or someone may come along for him and he will turn around and drop you like a bad habit. Are you prepared to deal with the suddenness of possibly having him out of your life for good?
If the other woman is jealous or if your new boyfriend finds out that you have had this kind of arrangement it is likely that your friendship with your lover is going to be threatened. Then you end up losing a friend and possibly causing jealousy in your new relationship. So considering the friends with benefits you really must ask yourself if you are ready to deal with the consequences.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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Have you had a man offer you the friends with benefits package and are wondering if you should just go for it? Sure it can be very nice to have an arrangement with a man where you can enjoy having sex without all of the headaches of a relationship. But how do you know for sure if this is something which is not going to come back and bite you?
Well, there is something which you have to understand before moving on with this decision.
First, emotional bonding is a natural result of having sex for a woman. There is actually a hormone in your body called the cuddle hormone or 'oxytocin' which causes you to emotionally bond with a person whom you have sex with. This is nature and when it comes to nature, you just don't get to decide how things work.
So you do have to ask yourself if you can handle having the emotional bond grow stronger while this man treats you as nothing more than a booty call. This may be ok in theory, but wait until your hormones start messing with the way that you think. You may find that you are in over your head before you know what is going on.
The other thing which you have to consider is that someone may come along who you really want to be with. Or someone may come along for him and he will turn around and drop you like a bad habit. Are you prepared to deal with the suddenness of possibly having him out of your life for good?
If the other woman is jealous or if your new boyfriend finds out that you have had this kind of arrangement it is likely that your friendship with your lover is going to be threatened. Then you end up losing a friend and possibly causing jealousy in your new relationship. So considering the friends with benefits you really must ask yourself if you are ready to deal with the consequences.
Imagine what if you could make any man adore you, chase you, love you, and commit to you? Click Unforgettable Woman Advice and learn 77 Secrets that ninety percent of women have never heard. You have got to see this!
This article is contributed by Tina Jones. Tina is part of the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women who want to understand male psychology, how to attract men, and find true love. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Tina_L._Jones
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